09-29-2014, 07:04 PM
It sounds like Anna has more problems than just ADHD. I am not sure about NC but in most states ADHD is not an identified disability and thus does not qualify for special education assistance. I have 2 special Ed. children and I know that sometimes people with an education background are the first ones to say "I don't want my child labeled" I have a problem with that because what your child needs may require a label. If Anna has problems with math she may have a learning disability and if so she needs (and her parents can demand) additional assistance in or after class and maybe accommodations on the state test. Home schooling can be wonderful but if Anna has social problems it might just make it harder for her to adjust in adult life if she doesn't learn in high school. There are also special high schools for children with educational or social or emotional problems. Ted might have to look into these himself and find the best fit for his daughter, but a parent must be the advocate for their child. I have a friend that got the local school to pay for and transport to a special high school that we picked for her daughter. It was the best and only thing that would have gotten this girl through high school. I have had lots of experience advocating for sp. ed. children and the only way to do it is to know a parents rights and fight for your child.
Linda
Start by doing what is necessary: then do the possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible St Francis of Assisi
Now a retired substitute Teacher in NY, & SC
AA Liberal Studies TESC '08
BA in Natural Science/Mathematics TESC Sept '10
AAS Environmental safety and Security Technology TESC Dec '12
Start by doing what is necessary: then do the possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible St Francis of Assisi
Now a retired substitute Teacher in NY, & SC
AA Liberal Studies TESC '08
BA in Natural Science/Mathematics TESC Sept '10
AAS Environmental safety and Security Technology TESC Dec '12