Career Choice

[snazzlefrag]

Hi B2,

I have moved this thread to the Off Topic forum. I hope you don't mind.

The most important thing to consider is this: Are you happy?

If your answer is no, then you should begin to look for a position that you can feel comfortable in, that makes you happy, and that makes you feel fulfilled.

If your boss (who is a personal friend) is worth his oats, he will understand that you need to find a job that is a better 'fit' for you.

I can't think of any reason to stay in a job that makes you feel unhappy or discontent. Even if the money is great, you will still be unhappy in the long run. More money might make staying in the job worthwhile, but in the end, the underlying reasons why you feel unhappy will remain. You will need to deal with your lack of excitement and contentment with the job at some point. So I think it is better to make a decision sooner rather than later. Staying in a job you don't like will only make you become more and more bitter and resentful the longer you stay in it.

Of course, you could stay in the current job. But if your heart isn't really in it, your performance will eventually become mediocre, and when all is said and done, you will very likely leave ANYWAY. It is a lose-lose situation for both you and your employer.

Alternatively, you could find a job that you can be passionate about, that really fulfills you, and that makes you happy. In such a position, you will very likely EXCEL because the job excites your heart, rather than just your wallet. In time, your passion for the job will bring you promotions, pay raises, and bonuses, etc. This would be a win-win situation for both you and your employer.

You are going to have to make the decision yourself, and it may or may not be an easy one for you to make. But you should make the decision that is best for you. Don't be afraid of offending your boss. His company will actually be more successful when he finds someone who is a perfect fit for the position, and who loves the job.

Similarly, don't be afraid to take a temporary drop in pay. There is so much more to life than money and, as I said earlier, if you are in the perfect job for you, you will quickly rise up the ranks and become more successful than you are now.

I hope that helps.

You have some serious decisions to make, and I wish you every success in your future,
Snazzlefrag