05-01-2008, 03:43 AM
cinderly Wrote:Congratulations, Barbara!
I don't know much about the GRE general but I imagine it to be like SAT for Grownups. Good luck on the test, too.
Have you had a chance to discuss with your new boss why he prefers the local program to the one you've selected? (I'd have the conversation with him - his objections may be based on assumptions instead of fact; if you can show him evidence that your chosen program is more rigorous, less likely to interfere with work deadlines, more customizable, or some other benefit, he may soften his stance.)
It sounds like a fantastic opportunity - sometimes we have to go backward to go forward. From what little you've posted, it sounds like an environment where you'll thrive.
He felt that a distance program only equips me with "book learning" but does not help with some "real life" issues. The grad program is a highly respected program in the Cincinnati metro area and is concentrated in employee and labor relations, which is the area that they wish to develop me in.
Now, I have been told that I am a finalist for another position in another state. The local job is 2/3 the salary, but offers tremendous professional growth and a higher future earnings. And, I will have to relocate which means selling a house in our current market. (will lose all equity and take a beating). The initial difference in salary is $2500 per month and it is a very good job, with great people. But moving 7 people is challenging. Oh the dilemna.
THANKS for everyones great wishes. At least I have options!