05-18-2008, 07:15 AM
I am infamous for aproaching girls in the mall that I fancy. A generalized version of what I do is below. Although it is situational and changes slightly to fit each girl and setting.
Excuse me, My name is Jake. I am in a bit of a rush to leave because I have to be (insert important place here) in a minute. But I think you are very (insert something apropriate here, the more situational the better). I was wandering if I could get your phone number (If I am in a cofee shop or someplace they are on the computer when I aproach I say email, then ask them to write down their phone number while their writing their email). I would love to chat with you and see where it leade. However like I said, I have to be somewhere at the moment.
It works often enough for me to keep doing it.
Excuse me, My name is Jake. I am in a bit of a rush to leave because I have to be (insert important place here) in a minute. But I think you are very (insert something apropriate here, the more situational the better). I was wandering if I could get your phone number (If I am in a cofee shop or someplace they are on the computer when I aproach I say email, then ask them to write down their phone number while their writing their email). I would love to chat with you and see where it leade. However like I said, I have to be somewhere at the moment.
It works often enough for me to keep doing it.