Would I be a fool to get out of the military?

[lprstn]

Personally, before you decide to get out, you need to position yourself to support yourself with a job at hand. Most people I know that spend their time in the military without lining up a job, of socking away some savings to buffer them end up shell shocked with trying to adjust without some sort of income. If your spouse had a viable job you could both support yourselves on while you find something than maybe it could work. Try looking for a job, interviewing, seeing how the market is for your skills before you jump out. Otherwise another 4 years may be what you need to get better prepared.