Dillema

[Publius]

Ok, people get misunderstood, it happens. But, shouldn't it be the OP asking forgiveness for himself? Maybe saying "wow, oops, my bad, didn't mean it to come out that way?"

I'd posted a nice reply, and after finishing the thread, I didn't like the tone, so I edited my reply. BUT, you're right. Sometimes people need direction, so I'll post a new reply, which is actually better than the first one I'd typed out anyway

1. Post with manners so people feel compelled to help you.
2. Use the search feature first, and ask for clarification from others when you don't understand.
3. Be gracious and thank those who answer your questions.
4. When helped, return the favor.

I know you’re always more then willing to help out, as are tons of people on here. I was not intending to pick on anyone or condemn them, if I came across as that I apologize. All the advise you listed is great, true, and should be taken into account. I wasn’t accusing the OP for being uninformed, not utilizing search, etc. My point was that I didn’t see him as “extremely rude.” As Prloko stated it’s hard to see tone as well as many other aspects of communication in written discussions like this.