10-16-2011, 07:35 PM
I am so sorry to hear about this. My prayers and thoughts are with your father, you, and the rest of your family. These situations are a big wake-up call that the things we typically stress about on a daily basis are as nothing compared to what really matters - the people around us. Money gets tight, sometimes we disagree, we get hyperfocused on degrees and other important things, but loved ones are the most valuable influences in our lives. Please take care of yourself during this difficult time. It is normal to try to take on more to take the pressure off others, but please do not forget that you are someone's valuable influence as well, and to be present and strong for them, you must also be in good health, physically and mentally.